Whether you think it does,
or you think it doesn't..you're probably right...
One of the major barriers to personal change or to personal growth that is the impact of our experience on our enthusiasm....
"The past does not predict the future
- unless you live in it".
That last part - "unless you live in it" is the key - because we all do. Best quoted of the days!!
"If you keep on doing what you've always done,
you'll keep on getting what you've always got".
So ladies and gentlemen! If you continue to be the YOU were last year, then YOU can and should expect that this year will be pretty much the same YOU.
If you look back at your record of pulling person... or whatever u r interested in, then it is actually REASONABLE to expect the same record for the future . But, IF (this is the key) IF you do now, what you did last year.....
So the plan should be to do things differently!
Understanding that is an essential step forward, but it's depressingly not the whole solution.
For example, I now know exactly why I have struggled in some situations. I know where my outlook came from, and intellectually, I accept that it is all an irrational mistake. And I also know which behaviours I should get rid of and which new ones to acquire.
BUT I STILL SOMETIMES DO THE BAD STUFF AND DON'T ALWAYS DO THE GOOD STUFF.
I'm making progress but this is really hard to do.....got it? Understand pls.
So you..okay..me too have to find ways to do stuff in the real world which is not what we would normally do, and there are a variety of methods available.
But key to them all is that you have to be willing to leave your comfort zone and move into the "stretch zone". Find it youself. This message I dedicated to all my freinds an especially those bestfrenssss ever! :)
This is the ONLY zone where personal change happens. If you feel you want to do something, then you are in your comfort zone .....which is the wrong zone! You hv to do the things you don't want to do!
"What goes around comes around"
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